As love grows within your relationship, we sometimes focus on working to keep the elements of the relationship together such as, the finances, verbal communication, you know…the easy stuff right? But what about the romance? This includes, but is not limited to sex. Once we’ve been with our partner for so long, we tend to forget that dating matters not only prior to the relationship, but also during. How long has it been since you visited that restaurant you went to on your first date? When did you last go out to dance or to a concert with your love? Or even a trip? The next ten points are things that have helped me in my own relationship and hopefully they will help with yours as well.
- 1 COOKING CLASSES!
Although you may know how to whip it up in the kitchen, there’s nothing wrong with attending a cooking class together and learning something new. Depending on where you live, there may be a place to learn how to cook certain sexual foods (aphrodisiacs). You could even cook new recipes at home and utilize the grocery delivery system “Blue Apron” and “Hello Fresh” and stay at home and make new and exciting home cooked meals.
- DOUBLE DATE
There’s something about going on a date with friends, friends who are a couple to be exact. Double dating is fun and the conversation can be very refreshing due to the fact you are able to share mutual interests and learn from one another. It is very fun and exciting to have a good time with others especially like minded individuals. Hanging out with your single friends is cool, but having a double date or even partaking in a couples retreat is very enlightening and delightful!
- PARTICIPATING IN AN ACTIVITY THAT YOUR PARTNER ENJOYS
Females specifically, tend to always want to make the suggestion on what to do or where to go for date night. How about letting our partner give the suggestion or take the initiative to set something up that we know they would like? I mean it can’t be that bad and it really shows them how caring you are and considerate. This can be a turn on for your lover indeed.
- VISITING THE SPA
Visiting the spa together is amazing! When my girlfriend and I visited, it was magical! I’m not sure of what was in the oils, but I know that I felt very loose and my sexual senses were tingling. We ended up purchasing a bottle of the oil and utilized ourselves. This actually bring me to number 5.
- GIVING ONE ANOTHER A MASSAGE
There’s nothing like a massage from your partner. Feeling their hands rub against your body just does something to you and relaxes you. This is definitely a way to stimulate your sexual desires. You could even take a class on how to properly give your partner a massage and how to find their sensual peaks and create an even higher sexual experience.
- ROLE PLAYING
There’s something about pretending to be someone else that is just…sexy. Dressing up as characters and fulfilling fantasies is very fun and once you and your partner get the hang of it and get the kinks out of it; meaning the goofiness and laughter; it can be very sexy. I still want to pull out a maid uniform and try out the maid thing myself, but I wouldn’t mind taking on random other things like the damsel in distress and the naughty nun. There’s so many ideas
- PDA? SEX IN PUBLIC PLACES???
Now I can be a chicken with this one because I still have yet to actually have sex in public aside from the basic in the car action where the windows fog up and it’s obvious that someone’s in there making whoopee. I have heard that this can be very exciting and I can believe it! The excitement and rush of trying to get that quickie in before someone notices you or even getting it in when someone is watching you just don’t give a fuck can be invigorating! I just haven’t developed the courage to do it yet, but I would like to. As a matter of fact, if you have done it yourself, leave a comment below so that I can live vicariously through you. Doing something naughty along with your partner creates that daredevil element in the relationship that your partner will love about you for even being willing to try it. But warning, if you do this, PLEASE don’t get caught! The fines and penalties are no joke for indecent exposure acts and will surely cost you!